Introduction
Marriage is the primary
foundation of life. It is a step to success and sadly it is also a step to
destruction because of incompatibility and lack of knowledge – Amos 3:3.
Divorces are majorly as
a result of incompatibility. Because Knowledge was lacking before stepping into
marriage, many marriages suffered. Once there is incompatibility, which is a
function of DISAGREEMENT, a marriage can hit the rocks. Even when human blood
is of the same group and genotype, there are still cases of incompatibility
(disagreement) and thus such blood cannot be donated to another and vice-versa.
Wrong marriages pack up and sometimes lead to death because one partner was
carrying an emotional burden or pain; and burdens kill more than HIV or Cancer.
Disagreeing to agree, agreeing to agree is the game changer and miracle wand.
AGREEMENT will lead to Understanding, Peace and Harmony in the physical and in
the spirit.
What you must know BEFORE STEPPING
INTO MARRIAGE
1) Seek God’s face first and pray for
confirmation from God.
2) Put it at the back of your mind that
even if God chose for you, your partner is not perfect because of human nature.
3) Study your partner and their
background.
4) Ask of or know your partner’s customs
and traditions.
5) Understand the health status of your
partner.
6) You must Endure and Tolerate.
Endurance and Tolerance is the result of understanding. Understand each other in
order to perfect agreement.
7) You must ask of or know each other’s
past truthfully.
8) You must understand the Do’s and
Don’ts of each other, that is, your likes and dislikes, your strengths and
weaknesses.
9) Find out if your partner is the only
Son or Daughter of the family – or else you may also be marrying the family who
may be overly worried or concerned
about their offspring.
10)
Don’t
go into any relationship because of the tele-guiding
of your leader – Pastor, Boss, and Relative etc. take responsibility!
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